A Girl And A Boy Walk Into A Bah
Bah = “bar” in Boston
Boston is where I met and fell in love with my husband Mark before we moved our family back to the Midwest (where I am from).
My origin story isn’t your classic, “I found my mom’s old dusty camera one day and never looked back.” It’s more like,
I'm jamie
Photographer, + adventure elopement lover
quick deets on your wing woman
I'm a cat lady
Lord of the Rings lover
Breakfast is my soul food
Spiritual > Not religious
Generally always barefoot
I love reading smut
Valentines Day is my fave
What color is my hair now?
Toddler Trenches of 2
The 90's called, they want me
“I fell in love with love and that led me to photography and THEN I never looked back.”
But let me rewind real quick... 👀
Since you’re here, I’m guessing you’re not super stoked about a traditional, large church wedding. And honestly, I don’t blame you. They always felt a little stuffy and performative for my liking (but no shame if that’s what you’re into!).
Personally, I’m obsessed with small, intimate weddings and elopements. Why? Because I had one of my own and it was the coolest, most “us” thing my husband and I could’ve done.
And I want to support as many couples as I can in experiencing that same level of magic.
Bigger Isn’t Always Better
It’s about what you do with it, ya know??
oh my quad. these are my kinda humans
Endlessly inspired by
01.
sci fi movies
02.
film photography
03.
mountains
04.
my friends, honestly
05.
taylor swift
06.
textures
07.
technology
08.
board games
09.
national park posters
VIBE CHECK 🤝
So you know what you’re getting into
How I will Direct You →
I’m a sucker for candids and unplanned moments, so I typically let my couples interact naturally and simply document their love. However, if you ever need a little help or direction, I’m down to offer my guidance (I have a ton of super helpful posing prompts that aren’t weird “whisper something funny in their ear” vibes! I promise, there’s a 0% chance you’ll look bad in these photos).
How I Photograph →
I approach each session with a movie mindset. Meaning that I ask myself, “If this were a movie, how would this play out? How can I tell the entire story of their love from hand gestures and hugs to belly laughs and playful banter?” With that in mind, I make sure to always be the one moving and finding the right angles and lighting so that you can simply BE.
How I Edit Your Images →
My images are inspired by film photography, so they’re always true-to-life skin tones with a subtle touch of warmth. And I’ll never morph your body or change the way you look. I’m all about highlighting what makes you YOU and keeping it natural (but elevated).
I’m a sucker for candids and unplanned moments, so I typically let my couples interact naturally and simply document their love. However, if you ever need a little help or direction, I’m down to offer my guidance (I have a ton of super helpful posing prompts that aren’t weird “whisper something funny in their ear” vibes! I promise, there’s a 0% chance you’ll look bad in these photos).
How I Photograph →
I approach each session with a movie mindset. Meaning that I ask myself, “If this were a movie, how would this play out? How can I tell the entire story of their love from hand gestures and hugs to belly laughs and playful banter?” With that in mind, I make sure to always be the one moving and finding the right angles and lighting so that you can simply BE.
How I Edit Your Images →
My images are inspired by film photography, so they’re always true-to-life skin tones with a subtle touch of warmth. And I’ll never morph your body or change the way you look. I’m all about highlighting what makes you YOU and keeping it natural (but elevated).
yap at me here!
Like every little girl ever, I was asked to be the flower girl at a family member’s wedding. I distinctly remember hating the way the scratchy fabric felt on my skin and wondering why the heck I had to wear it anyway. I couldn’t wait for the wedding to be over and change back into something comfy (and yes, this is still my line of thinking).
But the moment I walked down the aisle and began tossing petals left and right, I was hooked. The teary eyes. The oohs and aahs. The love you could feel in the air! It was like a real-life rom-com only better.
After that, I completely forgot about the dress and focused fully on getting down on the dance floor until my parents drug me out of the reception.
A decade or so later, I photographed my first wedding. And those feelings of excitement, love, and endless possibilities came rushing right back. I knew, with perfect clarity, that this was what I was made for.
Also yes—I did get a degree in photography which 100% helped me refine and elevate my technical skills. But that first wedding truly set the tone for my career. And if you ask nicely enough, I’d stand in as flower girl on your big day (with a camera for a bouquet).
PS: Yes -- I currently live in Iowa, but my passion is MOUNTAINS! * insert LoTR meme here *
Maybe she was born into it
Maybe It’s Maybelline
iowa bred
+ corn fed
(and too many opes to count)
as seen in
"YOU'RE JUST SO COMFORTING.."
What gets me going is doing this for humans as unique as you. I want you to spill the tea, tell me why you want to elope, tell me how you named your dog after that last trip you took to that one mountain range..
I want to know all of these things that make you, well you!
MULTI DAY WEDDINGs are where it's at
This could be you! Except you don’t have to eat pancakes or pizza or hike a mountain or do anything you don’t want to do. That’s the point—you deserve a day (or days) crafted around whatever it is that makes you two tick.
My passion is giving you full permission to write your own rules for your wedding + marriage!
I WANT THIS!
- We said “I do” on Wednesday morning and followed up the intimate ceremony with breakfast (because pancakes are life)
- On Saturday, we had a backyard wedding with our closest family and friends because we wanted them to be able to celebrate with us (there was pizza, wings, cheesecake, and personal vows—it was incredibly cheesy, cute, and totally us)
- To finish off our wedding week, we headed to the mountains just the two of us and spent a few days in newlywed, adventurous bliss (fresh air and a fresh spouse? Nothing better)
THE BULLET POINTS OF MY ELOPEMENT DAYS TO GIVE YOU IDEAS FOR YOURS
Whether hung on a wall or made into an album—your images deserve a physical place to live. All my clients receive a custom album design when I deliver your full gallery so we can start the planning process! I make it simple, and do it for you!!
Photos Should Be Printed:
I consider caring for our planet a personality trait. The national parks are some of my favorite places on earth and helping you enjoy their beauty for your vows for years is my goal.
Our Planet: I’m Leave No Trace certified
Love is love and I am very loud and proud of all the humans in my life. If you don't believe so, I am not the photographer for you.
Inclusion: Love is genderless and beautiful in all forms.
3 Things I Take Very Seriously
+ Constant Communication (Not just a book and forget me kinda vendor)
+ timeline + planning guidance
+ Location Scouting & Selection
I know first hand how it feels to be ghosted by a vendor (my videographer did it to me prior to my wedding) and not feeling like anyone is excited for your elopement plans.. but not with me. You're going to laugh.. a lot! Because serving is a love language and helping you fills my photo lens cup.
DOING THIS FOR YOU SETS MY SOUL ON FIRE
FROM ME TO YOU..
Ready to Start Your Elopement Journey?
YOUR ELOPEMENT DAY ISN'T JUST A PHOTOSHOOT WITH SOME VOWS, LET ME HELP YOU CRAFT YOUR DREAM DAY
“Jamie and Mark are weird, but don’t worry, it’s the cool kind of weird. The weird that will make you feel comfortable in any situation. Fair warning, you may fall in love with them.”
“YOU MAY FALL IN
LOVE WITH THEM”
My fiancé and I can’t speak highly enough of Jamie & Mark. So sweet, extremely prompt, and so talented. They went above and beyond, exceeding our expectations. Love Love Love! 😻
“LOVE LOVE LOVE!! 😻”
REED SHEPARD
Being a wedding videographer, Jamie and Mark are the best photographers I have ever had the pleasure of working with. Not only did they make everyone feel very comfortable and at ease, but they were also willing to help me get the shots I needed/wanted!
"BEST PHOTOGRAPHERS I'VE HAD THE PLEASURE WORKING WITH
Nikki S.
Great photographers, even better personalities! Love their photography style. Highly recommended for any kind of occasion. They will capture YOU.
Great photographers, even better personalities!
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wASHINGTON elOPEMENT phOTOGRAPHER, Destination wedding photographer
wASHINGTON elOPEMENT phOTOGRAPHER, Destination wedding photographer
